Being too Serious can Drive you Crazy....... So beware guys

Are you having fun? Do you get a thrill from your work? Do you enjoy waking up each morning?

Certain myths about work can pull you down. "Work is not supposed to be fun." "You must buckle
down and get serious." Perhaps the biggest myth of all: "People will think I’m important if I act
seriously."

Yet getting serious creates problems: stress, worry, anxiety, emotional pain, drudgery and failure.

Resolving problems by getting more serious is like fixing a computer with a hammer. The harder
you try, the worse the problem becomes.

"When life becomes serious, a man becomes less cause and greater effect. If life gets really
serious, his value drops to practically zero. Driving a car can become such serious business
that one can wreck the car. Running a business can become so serious as to make it fail.
There is a direct connection between insanity and seriousness. "

"It is only when an individual progresses in life to a point where much seriousness is
attached to things that he begins to have a hard time. The ancient Italian really knew what
he was about when he considered that the only psychotherapy was laughter." -- L. Ron Hubbard

12 Ways to Lighten up

Approaching your life with a non-serious attitude gives you a clearheaded view of problems and the
energy to deal with them. Problems are easier to solve, people are more cooperative and you feel
more relaxed. You probably live longer as well.

Think of your life as a game. Give yourself permission to play the game, to have fun with the game,
and to win.

Try these techniques until you find one that lightens you up.

1. Deliberately turn a molehill into a mountain. Make a big deal out of a little problem. "I would feel much better if these papers were stacked exactly like this! Not like that! Like this! Not this! This!"

2. Ask yourself, "Is getting serious about this situation really going to improve it?"

3. Focusing on the positives. Repeat these questions until you feel lighter, "What is right about this picture?" "What else is right?" "What else?"

4. Consider a complete, major change. Why not become an airline pilot? Why not move to Idaho? Why not retire for a few years and then begin a new career?

5. Ask yourself, "When I’m on my deathbed, will I be glad I was so serious about _______?"

6. A challenging game is much better than no game at all. So consider losing all aspects of the problem. Examples: You feel serious about family problems. You ask yourself, "Well, what if I had no family at all?" You feel serious about your investments. You ask yourself, "What if I had no money to invest?"

7. The size of your problem may match the size of your game. So get a bigger game. For example, if you get uptight about paper clips being in the wrong drawer, your game size is tiny. Double your amount of responsibility. Set some huge goals. Think much, much bigger.

8. Stop trying to solve the problem that is making you so serious. Certain types of problems solve themselves if you leave them alone. Your problem may be one of those.

9. Compare what you are doing to other careers. Imagine being a septic tank drainer or an IRS agent.

10. Make everyone around you lighten up. You will soon feel more cheerful.

11. Look at bizarre solutions. What is the craziest way you could solve your problem? What solution, if it worked, would make you laugh out loud?

12. Act stupid for a minute. Let down your hair. Stop being so darn important for a while. Be a goof

Devil is Back

It has been a long time I haven't written anything in this soft corner.
Here I am. Back with a bang.

After lotsa posting on fropper.com (www.fropper.com/ezblog/rockeroffropper), and my other blogs I have now finally decided to continue with this one and will now be available mainly on this blog post.

Stay tuned coz Picture abhi baaki hai mere dost......

Tomorrow is Maharashtra Day and having off from work so will be goin to write more and mainly of my experience of Mumbai Blogger's Meet which I have attended last Sunday (i.e. 27th April, 2008)